In a time when the fragility of marriages continues to make headlines and the rising cases of domestic violence shake the very foundations of society, one man has stepped forward with a timely intervention. Saturday, 27th September ,2025, marked the official launch of “Just Before You Say I Do”, a book authored by Olumide Kayode Omosebi, a Barrister and founder of the Gnosis Help Initiative, a non-governmental organization dedicated to aiding victims of domestic violence and sexual abuse.
The event brought together advocates, families, faith leaders and members of the public who share a passion for strengthening the institution of marriage.
Omosebi, who also anchors syndicated radio programs, described the book as a compilation of 20 years of research, evidence and statistics on the breakdown of marriages and the factors responsible.
At its core, Just Before You Say I Do highlights the often-overlooked role of basic character traits, spousal choices and intentional courtship in building sustainable marriages. The author stresses that beyond love, prayer or societal expectations, couples must prioritize self-awareness and choose partners who complement their values and aspirations.
The book does not shy away from tackling the tough realities of generational failures, polarized beliefs on religion and tradition and the rising shadow of domestic violence. Omosebi emphasizes that protecting one’s mental well-being, safety and happiness must remain at the heart of any union.
Speaking at the launch, he explained that the book is not just about preventing divorce; it is about giving marriages a fighting chance in our modern world where traditional values are fast eroding. Marriage is beautiful, but it requires knowledge, courage and the right choices to make it last.
The book is designed as both a guide and a conversation starter for singles preparing for marriage, couples seeking stability and counselors guiding relationships.
Guests at the launch described the work as a “timely compass” for families and young adults navigating the pressures of modern love.
Just Before You Say I Do is now available for order directly from the publisher.
